great, just as i was strating to come on you have to go and leave me with no power! but anyways, i dont think you try hard enough. heres my advice: go on myspace, find everyone with xmods and that doesnt really go on the other xmods websites, and invite them in. say that this is a kool forum but its just getting started. m,ake a competition and have small prizes (donated by the admins) and give it a chance to grow. your not trying hard enough. my personal website has 6 members, and i still try. go on facebook, myspace, anything, get ur name out there. make some videos and put them on youtube. just walking away and leaving your problems to members isnt the way to get this runing.